
Psalm 147:10-11
Recently I heard a pastor preaching about love. He reminded us that love is primarily a state of mind governed by the determination of the heart to do what is for another person’s good. Agape love certainly is not a feeling, although feeling may follow doing what is necessary to help another person grow in their faith, and comfort them while surviving overwhelming obstacles, etc.
Erotic love may be governed by the heart, but when we are commanded to love everyone on earth it takes determination to overcome dislike, or to seek out those in another strata of society. Wasn’t this what prompted our heavenly Father to reach down to mankind to sacrifice the Son He so loved? (John 3:16). This agape love determined before the foundation of the world that plan which saves us in the 21st century!
God’s love is unconditional. First of all, the object of His love (you and me) is dead in sin….spiritually dead; unable to respond to His amazing grace. How often do we try to impose that grace and mercy on someone else before the Spirit of God has worked a miracle, reviving their hearts? If our spirit, linked with God’s Spirit yearns over a person enough to pray for them until we discern signs of interest in spiritual things, we will work together with the Father. How often do we go it alone?
God’s love perseveres while we discover His strength is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). If our righteousness is like filthy rags (Isaiah 64:6) compared to His holiness we might feel we are untouchable, because that is how we often look at others who are ragged and dirty. Reversing the process – can we look at that person through the eyes of God? Just think – when we know God our perception changes. He gives us the ability to love as Jesus loved. Sacrificially! Easing us out of our comfort zone God gently allows us the privilege of loving others for Jesus’ sake.
Feelings come and go. Circumstances, discouragement, poverty of income or relationships and any number of other things factor into how we feel at any given time. We may not feel like worshiping God, but Jesus said to love Him with all our heart and soul (Matthew 22:37). We don’t always understand why we feel the way we do, so how is it possible for us to understand how other people feel or what makes them act on those feelings? If our love is conditioned by feelings alone we are indeed on a slippery slope!
Often we make the mistake of thinking we must feel love before we can minister to others. That feeling might be what blesses our spirits as we obey the Holy Spirit, as we love with our wills those who may seem to be undeserving. However, feeling must never be the basis of good works but rather those good works are a calling from God to do His will. To this end He has saved us.
“You have made known to me the path of life;
You will fill me with joy in Your presence,
With eternal pleasures at Your right hand” (Psalm 16:11)
Reflection:
Why do we want others to clean up their lives, emotionally, physically, socially? Did/do we ever deserve God’s love?
What signifies that we truly understand the meaning of love?
Must we like someone if we love them?
“The Lord delights in those who fear Him, who put their hope in His unfailing love”
Do we seek, first and foremost, to bring pleasure to the heart of God?








