Then Sings My Soul

February 9, 2026 AdminLeave a comment

Hebrews 12:1-4

Have you ever watched a bubbling brook? How picturesque the tiny rainbows glistening in the spray! What causes the water to bounce and froth? The water is hitting some obstacle. When your life has hit against some rocks does the reaction causes a thousand little rainbows to impact your world with beauty. The hymnist wrote “Then sings my soul, my Saviour God to Thee – How great Thou art!”

When life is hard, and disappointment turns into pain, does the joy of Jesus fill your soul with song? The Bible tells us that the author and finisher [completer] of our faith endured the greatest public shame with joy, because what He went through offered hope to everyone on the planet, then as well as two thousand years later (Hebrews 12:2).

It’s interesting the words the author of Hebrews uses. Not many of us would consider taking up our cross and scorning its shame as joyous, but that is just what Jesus did for you and me. We are called to be like Him in our response to those difficulties which life so often throws at us. Most of us have not resisted trouble to the point of shedding our blood (12:4). We are called to look at hardship as a discipline, not punishment, but rather training in righteous living.

The rainbows resulting make our world a better place. We all know those whose attitude destroys the small graces often found in the midst of trouble. How much sweeter does the love of Jesus make our choices in such moments? And it is a choice. Jesus made the will of His father the goal of His life. He found joy in pleasing His Father. There is no greater thing than that, as we know, who have experienced His peace in the center of our earthly storms.

Joy comes from looking outward; how sad it is to see people who function happily, only in the moment of self-indulgence. That sort of feeling is so very fleeting. It is never enough, but basking in the opportunities to please God by helping others brings a song to our lips! This is when we really “taste and see that the Lord is good!” (Psalm 34:8)

And that song brings glory to our Creator, Redeemer and friend! Immediately our hearts unite because it is the will of God, our Father, to provide for the needs of others through the riches we have experienced of grace, mercy and forgiveness. Then our souls are free to worship in the spirit of holiness, clothed in the righteousness of Christ’s abiding love! Then sings my soul!

Reflection:

How often do we look for externals to create a spirit of happiness? If I only had….? If I were just a bit older? Younger? If I had health and strength think what service I could offer to God. Many years ago I learned that God Himself equips us to do His will. Therefore, circumstances don’t need to alter in order for me to have a joyful song, to celebrate love, peace and hope. I worship God by grasping the opportunities of this moment, today. How sad and actually wasteful it is to live life expecting changes that we think will equip us for acts of mercy, in a spirit of encouragement.

“Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts” (Psalm 95:7b, 8a). Then sings my soul!

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Lack of Knowledge

February 3, 2026 AdminLeave a comment

Hosea 4:5-8

The nation of Israel was divided by the sons of Solomon and became known as Israel, in the north, and Judah comprised of two tribes, Benjamin and Judah, in the south. The northern tribes quickly became apostate, renouncing their beliefs in favor of the gods of nations around them. They sought military help from Assyria and Egypt when attacked (Hosea 7:11, 12:1), instead of seeking God’s wisdom and knowledge, which had led them out of Egypt in the first place.

Judah, on the other hand, was led for centuries by priests and kings who were true to their faith. Sadly the priests in the north, ignored the God the patriarchs had worshiped: Noah, setting up an altar to worship God who had saved him and his family from a world-wide flood, Abraham with whom the covenant was made, Moses who led the Israelites out of slavery, David whose poems/psalms became historical forms of worship down through millennia of time, Solomon – the wisest man on earth.

Solomon spoke a lot about knowledge. However, in later years the Lord sounded exasperated when He had Hosea record “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge”. The consequence was God’s judgement on the religious leadership of the day: “Because you have rejected knowledge, I also reject you as My priests”. Discipline would be felt by their children also: “because you have ignored the law of your God, I also will ignore your children” (Hosea 4:6).

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge” (Proverbs 1:7). What did Solomon mean? Were the Jews to be terrified of their God just as surrounding nations feared their gods? Google suggests: Fear of god is defined as a deep reverence, awe, and submission to a deity. For those who do not believe, it can mean the fear of divine judgment and eternal separation, while for believers, it signifies a respectful awe that motivates obedience and worship.

The purpose of the book of Proverbs was to teach the young knowledge and discretion (Proverbs 1:4). Throughout, Solomon links knowledge with understanding and wisdom (9:10), discretion and even discipline (12:1). One’s goal might include finding the knowledge of God (2:5) if you are looking to understand human relationships, for example (2:3). “Choose My instruction instead of silver, knowledge rather than choice gold” (8:10). Then something happens to our innermost being: “Knowledge will be pleasant to your soul” (2:10).

How many today would like peace of mind? How sad it is then that God seemed to be writing the northern tribes off. “I will pour out My wrath upon you”. Why? “They have deserted the Lord” (4:10) “They [the priests] feed on the sins of My people and relish their wickedness” (4:8). “They are unfaithful to their God” (4:12).

Is this angry God unkind? Unfair? Look at His heart: ”I desire mercy not sacrifice, and acknowledgement of God rather than burnt offerings” (6:6). “I long to redeem them” (7:13). “How can I give you up?…My heart is changed within Me; all My compassion is aroused. I will not carry out My fierce anger” (11:8-9a).

These people in their weakness have abused the gift God gave to them – the gift of choice. God, however, must be true to His character, to His love.

We can look at this scripture personally. As we go into a new year, will we tempt the Lord God to bring judgment upon us or will we bring joy to His heart by our obedience to His Holy Word?

Reflection:

God’s compassion and mercy overrule His anger, then and now. God wants to give His people hope. Without the knowledge of the Lord, people have suffered, but God is bringing that season to an end “For I am God – not man. The Holy One among you” (11:9). “I will heal their waywardness and love them freely” (14:4). Surely the written history of God’s faithfulness will bring us the assurance of His love accomplished through Jesus the Christ, our Lord and Saviour. Praise God! Great is Thy faithfulness!

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Unless the Lord Builds…

January 28, 2026 AdminLeave a comment

Psalm 127:1

In a perfect world, God would be in control, man would be happy in relationships, there would never be war, just peace and tranquility contributing to the well-being of all. Prejudice and manipulation would not exist. Hatred wouldn’t be in our vocabulary and next to that, fear would be eradicated. Children would be safe, adults would be free and the air would be filled with laughter and music. There would be no famine or poverty or abuse or disease. What a world! Dream on!

Why is this not possible today? The world was created for the benefit of mankind. With an abundance of food, beauty surrounded man in the garden of Eden, and God established relationships to enrich their experience. What God made, He pronounced “good”! What went wrong? Did God fail to maintain His creation?

NO! God gave man a mind with which to think and make choices. It would seem that in the heart of man was a yearning for something they didn’t have, for something mysteriously better. They weren’t even sure what it was – they just knew they were willing to risk everything they had to get it. God had forbidden them a certain fruit tree. Why? It looked good. The serpent told them it would make them wise – even like God Himself!

The best way to resemble someone is to spend time with them, getting to know how they think and feel, what determines their motivation, their vision, their work ethic, the success of their other relationships. Adam and Eve had the closest relationship possible with God, but when Satan came to tempt them even that was not enough. We may never know what they thought was lacking, but we do know that the same tendency exists today.

Ungrateful for what God had provided, and determined to be like Him, they persuaded themselves to disbelieve what God had told them. They didn’t have the advantage of psychology 101. All that God had built – the earth in all its glory, their garden home with its principle delights, even their relationship would suffer the challenges of change. The decision had been made. Suddenly they took over the constructs of their future!

How sad that over eons of time mankind still wants to be like God, on their terms. Our world is coloured by ingratitude, resentment and disobedience, in spite of all that God continues to build into our world – scientific advances that brighten the prospects of good health, which make exploration in space possible, knowledge about industry and technology that raises the standard of living, on every side we are surrounded by advantages in a world controlled by God.

Yet there is fear on every side, too. Fear of our fellowman. By relinquishing God’s control, we are now overwhelmed by the possibility of choices which might be made by the arrogance of mankind. Think about nuclear war. Back to the beginning. “Unless the Lord builds the house, its builders labor in vain.” Do we understand what that means? Do we believe it?

Reflection:

Are you ever tempted to want more than God has given to you? How do you respond?

Do you grieve over the tendency of mankind today to relate to God on their terms?

How do we counteract this tendency, or can we?

Are you involved in building God’s house? What does that entail, for you?

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The Smoking God!

January 19, 2026 AdminLeave a comment

Exodus 19

Today television enables us to watch volcanoes spewing forth smoke and ash, pouring lava down the sides of mountains, clouding the atmosphere for miles around! How many of the local people tremble at the potential danger, and certain damage to follow, in its wake? It must be terrifying to live in a zone with imminent danger from these smoking giants!

Curiosity has drawn scientists to the very brink of bubbling cauldrons that warn us of sleeping giants. Now science has explained away some of the mystery, but the awe, the fear remains. We know that underneath the earth’s crust there is seismic activity that explains a lot of the natural phenomenon here on earth, but it remains unpredictable to some degree, and totally uncontrollable.

Over centuries of time mythology and tradition taught people to fear the gods that caused such eruptions. However, we know that God Almighty, the creator of heaven and earth sustains His creation for His own purposes. We can only see one side of the canvas; it is the tangled threads on the back that confuse us, but God who knows all is not confused. He is actually bringing order out of what looks to us like chaos.

God tells us “It is I who made the earth” (Isaiah 45:12). He then manifested Himself in many ways in order for man to know Him, to ”get it” – that God is present, in control. Smoke is one illustration in scripture of the presence of God. He led them out of Egypt with a pillar of smoke/cloud during the day and fire by night. In His covenant with Abram God appeared as a smoking fire-pot with a blazing torch, passing between the pieces of an animal sacrificed for this significant moment of dedication. The divided carcasses symbolized what would happen if this covenant was broken. To this day God honours His covenant with Israel, by drawing a remnant to Himself.

Smoke was one way of getting peoples’ attention. In Exodus God called the people to Mount Sinai to the place where “smoke [symbol of God’s majesty] billowed up from it like smoke from a furnace” (Exodus 19:16-18). Often in scripture, especially in prophecy, smoke symbolizes destruction (Revelation 9:2, 14:11). I’m reminded of the power Jesus warned about when he referred to God’s option, His choice to punish the unbelieving in hell, where we might assume fire and smoke exist together (Matthew 10:28). Dreadful prospect!

In these few references we see God, in smoke, appearing to man to confirm His power and majesty, His guidance, His commitment to covenant. Perhaps as we watch the news today, and the occasional volcanic eruption, our minds will reflect on the magnitude of our “Smoking God”, One who can bring winds of change across the world just as He brought ashes from an Icelandic volcano to 20 European countries, affecting ten million travellers. Listen up everyone: “A smoking God speaks!”

Reflection:

We are going into a new year, one not yet spoiled by disaster. What is it about God that attracts our attention, today?

Is it fair of God to terrify people with natural disasters?

How would you counter such opposition to a wrathful God?

What is it that He wants us to learn from such events?

Do you see any cause to worship God when you reflect on cosmic or seismic activity?

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Thy Will

January 13, 2026 AdminLeave a comment

Matthew 6:10

Recently we studied the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus begins on a positive note with the Beatitudes, those precious blessings offered to those who sincerely mourn over their sins, and then act out the character of God. Throughout the sermon we sense the yearning heart of God. He longs for relationship with His people. What a challenge to those who see God as harsh in His judgments. Those who are pure in heart will actually see God, day by day.

As Jesus’ teaching flows through the laws of the Old Testament, He also reminds us today of something else. “Thy will” or “Your will” as more modern versions put it. What do you and I know about the will of God in the twenty-first century? Is it really relevant in this day and age when human distinction favours scientific exploration as truth?

Perhaps we need to start with the first words of Jesus’ prayer: “Our Father”. Who can truly call God “Father”? It is those who have seen Him – those seeking purity of heart….perhaps those who are willing to humble themselves before God by obeying His laws. I find it interesting that Jesus developed a theme as He reviewed laws pertaining to murder and adultery, divorce and remarriage, oaths and reconciliation. Are any of these hot topics in the church today? Do we really teach “Thy will”?

A pet peeve of mine, I just admit, is keeping the Sabbath. We don’t. We are not Jewish, and so we excuse ourselves in order to celebrate Sunday as the day of rest. Who of us honestly rests, taking time to be alone with God, on a Sunday? And Satan laughs! We go to church don’t we, and perhaps have fellowship at the Swiss Chalet afterwards? But does our conversation even bend towards things of God in that “fellowship” we find so needful?

God spoke through the prophets so His people then and now would know Him. He asks “…who is he who will devote himself to be close to me?…so you will be My people and I will be your God” (Jeremiah 30:21-22). N.B. “I will” identifies the purpose of God. “If My people, who are called by My name, will humble themselves and pray, and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land”. (2 Chronicles 7:14) The will of God is so clear here, isn’t it?

“Holy Holy Holy – Lord God Almighty” begins an old hymn lifting God up as Holy. This “Holy” God calls you and me to be like Him – to be pure in heart so that we might actually see Him. Real worship begins when we see God. At least that is what Jesus taught. This is why “Thy Will be done on earth as it is in heaven” is crucial to our prayers (Matthew 6:10).

How many times do we pray for our family and friends to be relieved of illness or discomfort, focusing on physical needs? What do we know about the will of God teaching us through temptation and trials? Think of it – our Lord endured both. Will we allow God’s will to accomplish His purposes?

Reflection:

What do you know about seeking the face of God? So, when you pray do you come with confidence or contrition? Do you pause to sense His presence when you pray? These are real questions, and there are more, which I must ask myself as I come to God in prayer. This is why Jesus taught His disciples to pray “Thy will”. Considering the magnificent possibilities, “Thy will “ becomes crucial to my prayers!

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Consequences

January 7, 2026 AdminLeave a comment

Philippians 2

Have you ever thought about the consequences of your choices? Scripture is very real to life, describing the human follies that not only implicate life in the present, but life down through generations of time. For example, Christians, Jews, and Muslims are all impacted by the decision of Abram and Sarai, to use Hagar as a surrogate mother for Abram’s child. To this day there is rivalry between Jews and Arabs over the land God promised to Abraham (Genesis 12:7), the land Christians call the Holy Land, because it is the birthplace of Christ!

Even farther back – to the very beginning, we find the choice Adam and Eve made in the Garden of Eden inflames mankind today, bound with the consequences of innate sin. Father Adam’s choice to believe the devil’s lie caused our DNA to be tainted with sin (Romans 5:12, 17). Thankfully, the choices another man made provide us with new life. More about that later.

David, King of Israel made various decisions that caused dissension within his family. He had too many wives, so the rivalry between his sons could be described in today’s language as dysfunctional. However, in his heart David worshiped God, writing some of the most beautiful songs (Psalms) used by the Church today. Therefore he, like Abraham, is described as a “friend of God” (James 2:23), or “a man after God’s own heart” (Acts 13:22). He became the forefather of the Babe who is famous for being born in the City of David.

With God there is always room for forgiveness, no matter what we have done. The Bible teaches us that it’s never too late to ask for God’s forgiveness. Take the thief on the cross as an example. His eternal destiny was determined by a last-minute choice and the consequence was that He is spending eternity with Jesus (Luke 23:43).

It is not only the choices made by the rich and powerful that touch the heart of God. An unnamed woman put everything she had into the temple treasury. We don’t know what prompted her to do so. She didn’t look for recognition for her sacrificial giving but Jesus was sitting there, watching her (Luke 21:1-4). Two thousand years later the consequence of her devotion to God challenges every Christian, regarding giving to the work of God!

A baby was born and laid in a manger. It’s easy to forget this baby was fully human. Called the “Holy Babe of Bethlehem” by lyricists and authors, Jesus was both God and man. This made Him vulnerable to temptation. However, He chose not to give in to Satan when tempted in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-11). He chose not to give in to His human frailty when faced by the cross when He sweated it out in prayer, in Gethsemane (Mark 14:32). The consequence was that He paid the penalty for sin – yours and mine.

Reflection:

Since you and I are only human, let us thank God He had a plan that gives hope to every situation, despite the consequences of our choices. Thank God we do not have to pay the penalty of our foolish indecision or even our rebellious disbelief, if we recognize Jesus as Saviour and Lord of our lives. We may reap the benefit of Jesus’ choice to give up His glory in order to become a man who walked this earth as our example. Praise God! What will you do with Christ and what will be the consequences?

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King of Kings

December 30, 2025 AdminLeave a comment

Revelation 19:11-16

The scene is set in heaven. The Holy Spirit revealed to the Apostle John just enough to excite our curiosity. What will heaven be like? To some of us the eschatology of Revelation can be rather daunting. What do all the symbols mean? When and where will these events take place? For sure, if God wanted us to know, He would have been specific, but God delights in surprises.

Besides, the Book of Revelation is not about process, but about the person of Jesus Christ (1:1). John had the enviable privilege of knowing Jesus personally when He walked on earth. Through scripture and the indwelling Holy Spirit, we who have believed and received, also know Jesus personally! Day by day we learn more through His love and power working in and through us. One day we know we will see Him face to face (22:3-4). What a glorious hope! In our scripture today we can picture Jesus coming in glory!

Many years ago I shook hands with a man of fame and fortune. It was such an exciting experience! At the time our future king was visiting Toronto, so some friends and I went to see him. There he was – no halo; just another man. Born into a position of privilege, he had no control over his birth. His mother, our Queen, recognized that reality when she endorsed a book written for her 90^th birthday: “The Servant Queen and the King She Serves”.

Compare Prince Charles’ situation with the King of Kings who was not born into a rich household, but rather was born in the humblest of circumstances. Jesus came intentionally to earth, giving up His glory to become a human baby; the control He had over His destiny is amazing (John 10:18). On the other hand, Prince Charles, now King Charles 111, created by God for this moment in history, had no pre-existence and will die at the time appointed by God (Hebrews 9:27).

Jesus is given many names in the book of Revelation. He claimed to be the “Alpha and Omega, the Beginning and the End” (Revelation 1:8, 22:13). He is worshiped as the “Lamb that was slain” (5:9, 12). “Saviour” (7:10), the “Root” of our salvation (22:16). “Shepherd” (7:17). His Kingdom is declared, over which the “Christ…. will reign forever and ever” – eternally (11:15). “Lord God Almighty” (15:3). “The Holy One” (16:5). “Faithful and True” (19:11). Didn’t Jesus say He is “the Truth” (John 14:6)? “The Word of God” (Revelation 19:13, John 1:1). “The bright Morning Star” (Revelation 22:16). Jesus, the rider on the white horse wears His ID on His robe “King of Kings and Lord of Lords” (19:16). “He will wipe away every tear ….there will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain…”(21:4). Jesus who gained the victory over death (2 Timothy 1:10), will make everything new (Revelation 21:5a).

God speaking through the prophet Isaiah told His people Israel that one day “Before Me every knee will bow” [Kings and Queens, believers and atheists] (Isaiah 45:23). Quoting that verse, Paul specifies all knees in heaven and on earth and under the earth” adding “every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is LORD, to the glory of God the Father” (Philippians 2:10-11).

Reflection:

Throughout the uncertainties of human history, many times believers may have thought the time of Jesus’ return was drawing near (Luke 21:28). Even today some are looking towards Jerusalem with that very hope in mind. One day, in God’s perfect timing, Jesus will return. God has always been faithful to His promises and the very fact that we, 2000 years after Jesus walked on earth, have Him in our hearts and lives is proof that He never did/would forsake His own (Matthew 28:20). Hallelujah!

“The Lamb will overcome them [those 10 earthly kings who will give authority to the beast]….because He is Lord of lords and King of kings” (Revelation 7:12-14).

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Our Wonderful God

December 23, 2025 AdminLeave a comment

Isaiah 9:6

“Our wonderful God” This is not a phrase I use often, but found myself writing about the love of our wonderful God which comforts us in all our losses. A friend’s mother had just died. It is Christmas time and the One whom prophecy foretold would be called “Wonderful” was ministering comfort to the grieving family.

Is it because of the things Jesus did that He deserves that name? Is it because God still performs miracles? I’ve held a miracle baby in my arms. Possibly every mother thinks her baby is a ‘miracle’, but when a young mom in Kenya prayed for her infertility to be taken away after many years of childless marriage, the little son I cradled in my arms was truly a miracle!

I’ve held another sort of baby in my arms, praising God for the miracle of His wonderful love and mercy. She was a woman with a ‘past’ who had found forgiveness at the feet of her Lord Jesus, and had entered into the family of God as a babe in Christ! What a glorious privilege!

There are many stories of God’s healing, physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually that have been recorded down through the history of humankind. Today we need Him as much as ever, to perform miracles of grace in a world gone mad with the passions of the ‘self’.

Three hundred years ago Isaac Watts penned the lyrics to ‘Joy to the World’, which into the twentieth century was one of the most beloved Christmas Carols. He ends it in a spirit of absolute wonder!

“He rules the world with truth and grace and makes the nations prove the glories of His righteousness and wonders of His love!”

Yes! His name shall be called “Wonderful”! Why? Because He [Jesus] is the Mighty God, the Everlasting Father, the Prince of Peace. God gave this prophecy to Isaiah for our benefit today. It is because of the wonders of God’s character that we fall on our knees to worship Him! Who do we know that equals His Wisdom? Who is so faithful in love? Where can we find such eternal justice or purity? God’s purity is called by a special name – He is Holy! Righteous! Fair!

Scripture reveals God yearns for a relationship with us in which He can demonstrate His gentleness, and goodness. Just as we have taken babies into our arms, our heavenly Father desires to bless us, tenderly drawing us close to His heart, enfolding us in His strong arms, caressing us with His nail-pierced hands. Isn’t this “Wonderful”….that the sovereign Creator of our universe is so relational?

Reflection:

How many hearts today long for the security of such a wonderful relationship? How many folks are shattered by man’s unfaithfulness? Whom can we trust? The wonderful truth is God is here, and He too longs for relationship with us, imperfect as we may be. He stands ready to pour His righteousness into our lives to “fit us for heaven to live with Him there” as the song-writer says. Imagine living for eternity with our Wonderful God!

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The Prepared Place

December 18, 2025 AdminLeave a comment

Isaiah 7:14

“Therefore the Lord Himself will give you a sign. The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and will call Hiim Immanuel” [God with us]

It all started in the mind of God. Earth – that perfect home for mankind. Man – made in the image of God, a miracle of creation! That human body complete with senses, alert to sights and sounds around him – the perfect man! And woman. Both made in God’s image, these two took up residence in a place God prepared for them which was absolutely perfect!.

Then there was the promise of a Virgin’s womb. Why? What? How? When? A multitude of questions!

Planned in the heart of God, there became a family of little children. Mary and Joseph had sons and daughters (Mark 6:3). But! Their first child was a miracle, different from all the rest. Jesus wasn’t just human, but He was Divine, perfect, sinless. Before Mary and Joseph came together she conceived that which was of the Holy Spirit (Matthew 1:20).

Try to imagine what it was like for the Son of God to become a baby. Philippians 2 tells us “He humbled Himself and took on the form of a man (2:6-8). That part we might understand if indeed He had appeared as a man, but the Christ-child is much more difficult to fathom, isn’t it? Becoming part of a family! Planned thousands of years before in the mind of God.

Then there was the ancient temple, where devoted Jews went to meet with God. Prepared in advance, Jesus recognized this place as His Father’s House and defended it in a shocking display of anger when He cleared the money changers out because ”It is a House of prayer” (Matthew 21:13).

Later they killed Him. And there was a place prepared for His body, in accordance with an ancient prophecy (Matthew 27:57-60) A dark place. A quiet place where a miracle happened. His human body was transformed! Jesus, the Christ lives. He lives on in places prepared. When folks receive His sacrifice for their sins with joy, He comes to live in their hearts! (Ephesians 3:17)

Armageddon – the place of final battle. The Prince of Peace….we sing about Him at Christmas time, but this is when that great peace will finally be accomplished. And we will live forever with the Lord in heaven because Jesus promised “I go to prepare a place for you….!” (John 14:1)

Reflection:

At Christmas time let us worship the baby who took His place in the plan of the Father. We who question so much of what we see God doing in our world, and in our lives, need to pause to reflect on the Holy One we say we follow. Have we committed our lives to receive what God has mapped out for us? Is there a womb experience, or a tomb that we must go through? What joy and peace may lie on the other side?

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The Perfect Parent

December 8, 2025 AdminLeave a comment

Proverbs 3:11-12

How many young couples holding a tiny new life in their hands, start out hoping to improve on the parenting that was modelled for them? Others want to emulate the Dad or Mom or even Grandparents they were blessed with. What is the highest expectation a new Mom and Dad might hold of what their parenting skills will achieve?

In hospital with my own firstborn I remember the two young girls sharing my room both wanted to “grow up” with their babies. Both 18, it is probable they still had some growing up to do. But maturity is a relative term…we are forever learning. Adapting to parenthood is a process, not an event. At Christmas time one can’t help but think of what young Mary had ahead of her; parenting a perfect baby when she herself wasn’t mature.

There is one exception of course. God, our Heavenly Father is the perfect parent. He is not in the process of ‘becoming’. He is….all that is perfect, the loving, all-seeing, all-knowing, fair and just, Parent. Although we may try, it is impossible to pull the wool over His eyes; we cannot manipulate God. We can anger Him. People throughout human history have grieved our heavenly Father. How does He respond?

Our Father God disciplines those He loves, for our own good (Hebrews 12:6,10). People have asked why God would allow suffering, but perhaps it is because He knows it is often through suffering that men and women will turn to Him for His help. Why does God not fix the inequities in our world today? He knows we need to be stretched…those who are rich need to help those who are poor. Are we passing the test?

As parents we think we are better people when we rush in to fix the mistakes our children make, whereas the reality is they would become better people if they suffered the consequences of their wrong choices. On the basis of mistaken understanding of the character of God, we judge Him according to the ways of man, rather than the other way around. He is the benchmark of perfect parenting.

What is the product of perfect parenting going to be? Someone who is happy? Someone who is helpful? Someone who has hope? Can health and wealth compare with these assets? Sadly I have seen the most wealthy people who are empty of hope or happiness because they have no vision for helping. The perfect parent reaches out to help others, modelling choices that will impact a child’s well-being forever.

Reflection:

Our Father God reached down to a world that was suffering to offer help and hope, joy and peace, relief from the worst suffering possible. Separation from God determines our eternal destiny, so with kindness, mercy and grace our Father sent Jesus into this world to make relationship with His Father possible by paying the penalty for our sins. Jesus modelled how to live, and how to love. As our prefect Father’s perfect Son, Jesus offers us sonship, in His name. Will we receive God’s offer this Christmas?

“My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline and do not resent His rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those He loves, as a father the son he delights in” (Proverbs 3:11-12)