
Proverbs 6:20-32
A friend reminded me recently of the dangers of pyromania, an impulse control disorder which disables certain individuals from resisting the urge to set fires. Solomon makes note of this problem, but as he addresses it in Proverbs chapter 6, he is thinking about other fires, fires of passion. The setting is one decrying adultery.
In our day and age, we might ask if it is lack of absolutes or principles, that set these fires a-burning? “My son” – Solomon tenderly starts out. He is giving Fatherly advice on basic commands for Godly living. “Bind them [commandments] upon your heart forever; fasten them around your neck” (Proverbs 6:21). They are to be a reminder internally, and externally, so other people will see you live according to God-given principles. Verse 22 reminds us today that these principles would guard and guide us night and day. This is a profound thought!
God’s commands, taught by a Godly mother, will give light in our darkened world and keep us safe on the road of discipline, Solomon says (:23). Why is this necessary? There are fires of passion burning in the human breast. It only takes a spark to get a fire going (James 3:5, 6). Voiced by smooth-talking tempters and temptresses, immorality in our generation has hit a peak. “If it feels good – do it.” Misguided by the evil one who seeks to destroy, this is the devil’s lie.
We do not have the right to destroy another life, let alone our own. Read Solomon’s wise words. Giving into sexual temptation preys upon one’s very life (:26). Regret looms large on the horizon! Fear of discovery, fear of reprisals, fear of consequences? Is a moment of passion worth all that fear, fears which darken our lives and bring anxiety and depression? Solomon advises against it. “No one who touches another man’s wife will go unpunished” (:29).
This is a solemn message in our day and age. The fire is spreading as surely as wild forest fires raged throughout the west this summer. The damage is irretrievable. The fires of passion demonstrate a serious lack of judgment (:32). Based on a character flaw, this impulse disorder has sometimes been diagnosed as an addiction – it really is an addiction to self. Crying out “I want” men and women experience an uncontrollable lust in their hearts (:25).
However, God loves. God yearns to forgive. God has made a way when there seemed to be no way. We read testimonies of the victory over temptation and sin that Jesus gives those who allow the Holy Spirit to control their wayward hearts. Praise God there is a cure!
“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins AND to cleanse us from all unrighteousness”! (1 John 1:9)
Reflection:
Have you ever played with fire? Does it leave you feeling hopeless?
Upon what do you place your hope now when facing temptation?
Will you become a fire-fighter in our society today?
What is Truth by Marilyn Daniels
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