
Philippians 3
Some years ago a phrase was coined that described peoples’ search for meaning in life – “I need to find myself”. Many men and women stopped going to school, quit their jobs, bailed on relationships during the process of trying to discover who they were. What futility!
Little children display so much potential from an early age. Was it a failure then in parenting which caused them to feel they were lost, unworthy, inadequate? Was it unrealistic expectations about the meaning of life? Where did they lose that wonderful confidence so often natural to children, in their own abilities? What had people been taught to so unsettle their internal security?
When someone introduces you to a stranger what is your greatest identifying feature, that thing you would like people to know about you? Is it that you have a degree? …or does your marital status define you? Perhaps some great skill or talent ensures you are a person of worth. Every human being needs affirmation of their personhood, whether known for their great heart for people, or for their intellectual accomplishments, whatever it is that makes them feel significant.
How sad is it that people with education and intelligence, skills and talent, and even a measure of charisma are uncertain of what they can contribute to our world. How many comedians feel absolutely worthless while giving such pleasure to so many people? Yet we have all read stories about those who may seem underprivileged reaching out to others to bring joy, satisfied with their lot. We marvel at the inequities of life that bring self-acceptance to some and not to others.
The Apostle Paul remarked on his pedigree, in more than one of his letters. To the Philippians he seemed rather proud of the fact he was circumcised, an Israelite who kept the law, of the tribe of Benjamin – significant because Judah and Benjamin joined together as the spiritual stronghold in Israel. The other 10 tribes formed a northern alliance, which was less than Godly. He bragged about being a “Hebrew of the Hebrews” (3:5-6), a zealous Pharisee who persecuted the Church. Before his conversion he saw himself, with legalistic pride, as faultless.
At least he didn’t have to “find himself” – or did he? Thankfully God arrested his attention on the Damascus road where Paul discovered that, for all his good works, he failed to measure up to God’s standard and therefore needed to be forgiven of his sins. What an amazing discovery Paul made! “I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things” (Philippians 3:8).
Now he identified with Jesus Christ. He considered the greatness of his relationship with Jesus sufficient reason for losing all those other things – pedigree, position, even protector of his faith, which had been so important to him before. We are celebrating “Love” this month. Do you, can you love yourself so that you can love your neighbour as much as you love yourself. That goal is set for us by the Lord Jesus Himself! (Matthew 22:37-39).
May each and every one sense the love of God for them personally, today. What an honour to be called a daughter of Almighty God! We have so much to offer when we are secure in Him!
Reflection:
What is it that secures your identity?
Has God ever arrested your attention? Reflect on that occasion. What have you learned?
Do you have the reason, the means, the skill and the compassion to help other find their identity in Christ?
by Marilyn Daniels (MarilynDaniels.net)








